Buckling down on the eHarmony train

Lately, I've been making a better effort to really answer all the questions that my matches have been sending me. So now I'm at "open communication" with several of them, just trying to set up times to meet. I am visiting a friend out in Kansas City the first weekend in May and after that, I think I'm home for the next six weekends!!! Hallelujah! I think that may be the longest I haven't been on a plane in a long time! Not that I mind it at all, but I think it would be nice to unpack stuff before I reach the one year anniversary of living all by myself in my apartment!

Back to the eHarmony guys... there is one in particular that I'm very interested in. I can't lie. He's VERY cute! And he likes Disneyland. And he buys a different DL hat every time he goes (have I ever mentioned that I like hats?). He really liked one of the pics I have on my profile of myself with my Minnie ears on! I just sent him an email. He asked about getting together this weekend, so we'll see if that works out. I suggested Sunday evening because I'm pretty much busy the rest of the weekend.

As for the cute gamer guy with whom I had the awkward first call, I haven't heard from him at all. So, I guess that's that. I followed Erin's advice because I knew it was right and I didn't call or email him to prod him. The good thing is that I believe that is the right decision.

There are several others and at this point, I'm trying to just let them ride til next week because I know I'm busy the next two weekends. I'm hoping to meet up with many of them during May since I'll be home most of the month! That way, I'll either know they're a match or not and I can go from there. Every time I log in and see the long list of guys, I just feel a bit overwhelmed. I guess that's the problem with having too much fun stuff to do. The dating kind of falls by the wayside. I've been trying to bump up the importance of that recently. I love my friends, but unfortunately, they won't keep me warm at night!